Demographic divergence between the sexes is a major consequence of sexual selection. Matrix-based demographic measures, including the sensitivity and elasticity of l (population growth rate, fitness) to survival and fertility rates are powerful indices of intersexual divergence. Many morphological, behavioral and ecological differences distinguish males and females in lekking long-tailed manakins (Chiroxiphia linearis)--none is more dramatic than the demographic divergence. Only 16 of 142 (8%) banded males copulated during an eight-year period. The mean estimated age of male copulators was 10.1 years (SD = 2.2), and only 5 of 166 copulations were by males = 8 years old. Females probably begin reproduction at age one or two. The reproductive value curve reached a peak of 15.0 in their twelfth for males, versus 2.4 in their sixth year for females. The matrix-based elasticity of l (proportional sensitivity of the growth rate, or fitness) to survival rates was greater in males (91% of total elasticity) than in females (80% of total). In a literature-based, interspecific comparison, the difference in elasticity to survival between the male and female manakins (91 - 80 = 11; ranks 2 and 9 of 16 species/sex combinations) was greater than that between the sexes in northern elephant seals (90 - 84 = 6; ranks 3 and 8), which have the highest variance of male mating success documented for mammals, red deer (88 - 87 = 1; ranks 4 and 5), Galapagos cactus finches (79 - 74 = 5; ranks 10 and 12), and acorn woodpeckers (76 - 74 = 2; ranks 11 and 13). In the face of continuing debate over appropriate measures of sexual selection, matrix-based demographic techniques facilitate quantitative comparative analyses of the life history consequences of sexual selection. Measures of intersexual demographic divergence may provide insights into heretofore puzzling instances of sexual selection in species with little dimorphism in size or ornament.